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Our Children

Over the last week and a half, I have received numerous messages from clients who are concerned with what is happening in our country at this time.

This came on the heels of yet another school shooting. These clients are parents of very young children and there is fear around putting the littles into the school system.

I pondered this for a while.

I wondered what in the hell is going on in this day and age where shit like this is all too common. I asked wtf is wrong with humanity when people are so screwed up inside this is where they go.

I asked Source why this is happening.

I understand the purpose of chaos and destruction, but I cannot wrap my head around the idea of hurting children. Not sugar coating anything, these are the kinds of people I want to punch straight in the throat and kick them in the crotch. It is in this scenario that I realize I have fallen off the fencepost … the same one I tell you all to stand on.

The Dialogue with Source:

I asked Source why these things are happening now. I do not recall this happening when I was a child. I wanted to know what has changed.

“Gods of all kinds are taken out of school”.

“Materialism has replaced emotional availability”.

“Parents no longer have emotional endurance or the skills to cope, so they raise children who are wounded and have no coping skills themselves”.

“There is no reward for hard work for the children and the value of reward has diminished and now the children have forgotten the value of hard work and the confidence and self-esteem that accompany it”.

“Society no longer has patience, which reflects a lack of faith, which shows you how disconnected humanity has become”.

“Children are inundated with stories of horror and pain”.

"Everyone wants everything right now and this shows how disconnected humanity has become".

“Those feeling insignificant want their 15 minutes of fame and don’t care how they get it. This is the result of the media… to ensure ratings they need to stir the hearts of humanity to get them hooked in… and nothing does that more than spreading fear and heartbreak. This then creates a society where retribution and lack of empathy win air time. Bad behavior becomes more rewarding, does it not"?

“The guns are not the problem, the people are. You take away the guns, there are still knives or automotive vehicles with which to inflict pain. There are chemicals and glass bottles to make homemade bombs. The problem is within the people, not the instruments”.

“There are humans who are very much behaving like wild beasts, and your rules and regulations will never stop the heartless ones who wish to inflict suffering and chaos upon others”.

“How do you stop a bad guy with a gun”? Source asked me.

Ummm... A good guy with a gun? I stated.

“What happens when you can no longer discern the good guy from the bad guy because the line is very thin and it comes down to one’s intention”?

I just sat there because how the hell do you respond to that, yet you know it’s true. And that right there is the problem.

We as humans have lost our ability to critically think.

We have lost connection to our inner voice and guidance.

We allow ourselves to be educated by the news, the internet and can no longer run things through our own inner knowing because the station is no longer used.

I asked Source what we should do about this.

“To change the world, you must change yourself first”.

“Don’t believe me”?

Oh.. I do…

How many people do you know who are out there trying to “save the world” but they are so messed up they are fucking up their own children?

Source continues…

“How many of you are out there giving your time and energy to work that you have nothing left at the end of the day for yourself, let alone your children”?

“Change must start within you first”.

Ok… I get it.

If we as humans don’t deal with our own internal shit, we slowly bleed out. And what’s worse, is you will inadvertently cut others in your woundedness, and make them bleed too.

The answer to this??

It isn’t that easy and there is no one simple solution.

However, there are a few things you can do to do your part here.

Turn off the media. Do not give in to the fear mongering bullshit.

Use your brain and realize what is really going on in the world. Don't take shit at face value. Remember that fencepost. Get back up on that thing even if you fall off of it a million times.

Fix your shit so you don’t inflict that pain onto others. When we each deal with our inside suffering, it is then and only then that this world will change. The world will never know peace until each of us can be at peace within ourselves.

To raise healthy children, feed them right and love them right. Ensure they grow in their hearts and that they love themselves and feel heard in this world.

Show them what it looks like and feels like to be emotionally supported so they can go and be that for someone else.

A healthy child will find no reason to bully another if they are full inside.

A healthy child will feel loved and will try to show love to others.

A healthy child grows into a healthy adult.

Healthy people do not wish to harm others.

A healthy world starts with a healthy you.

A healthy you leads to healthy and happy children.

With Love,

Rebecca Costello, Psychic Medium

Dancing Elk Shamanic Healing

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